Question by  P32nicky (73)

What can i do when i feel lonely and ugly?

I am not attractive and have few friends and I do not want to be this way.


Answer by  traumatised (3285)

Take care of yourself; remember that you aren't ugly and are definitely worthy of love and friendship. Find something to do that you enjoy, like a new hobby, that lets your personality shine out and will let you meet people with similar interests. The more comfortable you are with yourself, the more others will be drawn to you.


Answer by  whobesidesme (406)

You are in control of your own life. Go to the gym - it will boost your self esteem. And find beauty in yourself - trust me, EVERYBODY has it. Assess what you value in the world and seek others who share those values for friendship and/or love.


Answer by  CatherineKlay (440)

I am sorry to hear you are stuck in a negative place. Volunteering to help others is a win-win way to help yourself out of this negative rut. You will feel better about yourself, gain confidence, and meet new people based on common goals of charity and gratitude. Self-worth and self-confidence are very attractive qualities!


Answer by  Anonymous

Remember loneliness is a feeling - "I feel lonely." Feelings come and go, and EVERYONE has felt lonely at times - whether they are single, married, surrounded by people, or sitting by themself... And look at marriage announcements - it's not just Barbies and Kens getting married :-)


Answer by  sherryk (621)

1st repeat aloud: there is "NOTHING WRONG WITH ME"--and repeat it often. Then figure out what you'd like to change about yourself to make yourself feel better. you are going to make a plan and work your plan. Join groups for new friends, and exercise and get new hairstyle, etc.!


Answer by  liilii (103)

Do something that makes you happy don't wait around for things to magically appear, move and do them yourself! Travel, treat yourself to a nice spa, do fun things and hopefully you will be happy :)


Answer by  AdamG (137)

Do something for yourself--something you enjoy. Stop telling yourself you're ugly--I was in the same situation, too, but had tons of friends-- and girlfriends--once I got a personality. "Spread sunshine all over the place and put on a happy face. "


Answer by  Anonymous

Work really hard and save money for surgery, believe me it will change your life. I did it and i got a better job, beaitiful gf and now i live the life of my dreams. It's worth every penny!

Reply by viperguy1 (2):
I disagree with this answer. A plethora of beauty can be found in every person, no matter the person. Know that when you feel lonely, someone needs you and relies on you. You bring happiness to someone!  add a comment
Reply by AdamG (137):
Absolutely terrible answer! there is something beautiful in everyone already--it doesn\'t have to be physical. I\'m certainly no model. I tell people that if I wasn\'t so funny, I\'d have never gotten a girlfriend in college--no less a couple handful of them. So ditch hangups, please, Anonymous. Get name surgery.  add a comment
posted by Anonymous
Wierd answer, but everyone is entitled to their opinion. Surgery! Is surgery really the solution to 90% of people problems will low self esteem? There are better and more tried and tested ways I think.  add a comment

Answer by  Fritz (608)

When you feel this way give yourself a makeover. Start with a soak in a hot bubble bath and then a facial and some makeup and put on a sexy outfit. Then go out for a night on the town.


Answer by  firefighter38310 (430)

i will bet your not really ugly and lonely. dont we all feel that way sometimes. i have. the challenge is to overcome these inadequacies. the way you feel about yourself and the way others feel about you are totally different. be yourself and have fun. leave the loosers behind


Answer by  100loveable (14)

just dont care about what ppl say about u if u feel beautiful and are happy every one is gonna enjoy to be around u ppl who care about the way u look dont matter and the ppl that matter wont care surround your self with those friendds u have


Answer by  Dinagirl (182)

Go shopping. It works for me...


Answer by  Dinagirl (182)

Certainly there is something in you that will shine out at any moment... You just need to create situations... new experiences are a great way to find yourself... Get out on adventures. Beat yourself and try new things.


Answer by  nicholas (26)

Why ask such silly question when you are unique in your own way? Well it seems that you are demotivated and its time to remind yourself to boost or improve your confidence! Remember that god was never stingy creating you uniquely! So love yourself as he loves you!


Answer by  flip2o (1220)

self conscious is a human nature, even a model think to herself she's not pretty enough. If you have a great personality then it can overcome you looks.


Answer by  jovial777 (37)

Honestly I must say that when I feel lonely and ugly I would like to sit on compluter table and chech my emai and other sites.


Answer by  Latin4 (11170)

Your in control. There is no such thing ugly. Everyone has something that they can draw on. Get a new hairdo, buy some new clothes. Join a singles group.


Answer by  babydoll (31)

try to look your best , qo take a walk somewhere make people notice you (; also try and talk to your friends about it. they miqht be able to help.


Answer by  celliott6666 (1)

Remember that everyone feels this way from time to time in their live's. Usually it might occur when one's partner has betrayed them. This too shall pass, and besides, the betrayer is really the ugly one from the inside out because they did not even consider how ugly the behavior.

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