Is it okay for my girlfriend to have lots of guy friends?

Answer by  tiffany (34)

It's totally up to you. Most guys want to be friends with a girl, because they are attracted to her. Your girlfriend might not be in the wrong, but her guy "friends" probably are.

Answer by  sauvblanc (96)

I think the answer is maybe. Yes, it could be, depending on the nature of the friendship and how emotionally intimate they are with each other (assuming no physical intimacy). On the other hand, if she is turning to someone else in times of need, you might be in trouble.

Answer by  floresja (33)

It is entirely normal for you girlfriend to have lots of guy friends. However, if you feel that any of her relationships with these male friends is inappropriate then you talk to her about it. The best way to proceed is to be honest with her about your feelings.

Answer by  Anita27 (656)

If she doesn't want you to meet her guy friends, you might have something to worry about. If she invites you along when she hangs out with them, it's ok.

Answer by  Anonymous

Yeah my gf has guy friends. It's not all that bad I trust my girlfriend, she blantly told one of them that he would be nothing more cause I started seeing his face everywhere around her. Don't fret man, just trust her it will be okay

Answer by  jakester2353 (6)

i think the answer to this is more based on trust. if you trust her, you'll let her be with her guy friends and not have to worry about it. im havin the same problem man.

Answer by  Anonymous

YES! Get over it! She loves you and they're just *friends*.

Answer by  Anonymous

a girl should be able to hang wit guys onli under the circumtances that she respects herself and her man..and do not lead a guy friend to believe he can be something more one day ...treat yur guy friends as u wuld treat an annyoing brother but more kindly

Answer by  ellerbellerz (141)

Does she act the same way around them as she does with you? You guys should have something special that sets you, her boyfriend, apart from her guy friends.

Answer by  Anonymous

No it is absolutely not okay... why does she need them for?

Answer by  Anonymous

yes i was too much jealous of friends,very hard to stop my jealousy,but got muslim girl she dont have more freedom with male friends ,and now i realy happy and now want to marry her.