Question by  rleller (1)

After dating an amazing guy for 21 days, he requested to meet my parents! What exactly does this imply?

We've already told each other that we're in love! It was instant chemistry from the first moment we laid eyes on each other. I'm 34 and he's 35. We know who we are and what we want out of life. We mesh on so many levels.


Answer by  Andersen (628)

It doesn't mean anything at all. I always like to meet a girl's parents as soon as possible. They feel safer knowing who their daughter is going out with. And since they always like me, it gives me additional leverage over the girl if I ever needed it.


Answer by  Doris59 (1647)

As you are adults and really attracted and connected, having your boyfriend initiate a meeting with his parents is significant. It means that he values your relationship enough to make the introduction to his family, showing things are moving to a permanent status.


Answer by  Anonymous

Meeting a girl's parents is a way to get to know her better. 21 days seems like a really short time to be asking this though.


Answer by  hoopla (150)

Guys will do anything to get you in bed, even meet your boring parents if they have to.


Answer by  Brett (7986)

There is no right or wrong time to meet somebody's parents, or to say that you love somebody. Everybody moves at a different pace. Chances are though if after 21 days he is saying that he wants to meet your parents, you wants something very serious from you and nothing less.

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