what to do


Question by  zzz (84)

What would you do if you don't love your husband but can't leave him?

I don't know what to do.


Answer by  MCheryll (105)

If the reason you can't leave is because you are in an abusive relationship, consider going to the police. There's no reason you should stay with someone you don't love. If he's not abusive, talk to him about your feelings, stand your ground, and put your happiness first.


Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Leaving your husband is probably the best thing to do. Be honest with him and let him know you no longer love him. Leading him on is probably not a good thing to do. He's going to be disspointed but it's the best thing to do.


Answer by  runnerbeans (374)

The most important question to ask yourself is do you even like him? If you are not in a dangerous situation, you can continue to stay with him, but focus on improving yourself and your confidence. If you are in danger, seek help immediately.


Answer by  whobesidesme (406)

I would leave. You didn't specify the circumstances as to why you "can't leave", but it sounds like you're just being unfair to him and extremely selfish by staying.


Answer by  ApprenticeJenn (959)

If you generally still like him but have fallen out of love, I'd try to fall back in love. There are many books at the library about rekindling relationships that might help. If you flat out don't like hime anymore or he's abusive, consider getting professinal help to leave the relationship.


Answer by  Ditti (44)

Cheat on him or kill him.

Reply by rabbits123 (85):
what are you crazy? i can call the police on you.. you said to kill him. think before you speak  add a comment
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