Question by  Sin42 (11)

If my husband can not forgive himself for cheating on me and wants to leave how do I get him to stay?

Last year my husband had a six month long affair, now he wants to leave because he feels guilty.


Answer by  tamarawilhite (17883)

This is not a one night stand, it is a relationship. He is not leaving because he cannot forgive himself. He is leaving to be with the other woman. If you try to make him stay, realize that he will still cheat. Contact a lawyer to take preventative actions in case of divorce.


Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Let him go. He's not going to change his mind. If he did he would only feel guilty and it would ruin your marriage.


Answer by  whobesidesme (406)

He's doing you a huge favor. You may love him and forgive him, but isn't the damage already done? Isn't your trust completely violated? He should feel guilty. Let him leave - you will be happier in the long term.

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