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Question by  Sin42 (11)

If my husband can not forgive himself for cheating on me and wants to leave how do I get him to stay?

Last year my husband had a six month long affair, now he wants to leave because he feels guilty.

 
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Answer by  tamarawilhite (17883)

This is not a one night stand, it is a relationship. He is not leaving because he cannot forgive himself. He is leaving to be with the other woman. If you try to make him stay, realize that he will still cheat. Contact a lawyer to take preventative actions in case of divorce.

 
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Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Let him go. He's not going to change his mind. If he did he would only feel guilty and it would ruin your marriage.

 
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Answer by  whobesidesme (406)

He's doing you a huge favor. You may love him and forgive him, but isn't the damage already done? Isn't your trust completely violated? He should feel guilty. Let him leave - you will be happier in the long term.

 
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