What is the difference between *spousal* arguing/fighting and *spousal* abuse in a relationship, from both an adult and child perspective?

Answer by  technogeek (6640)

The difference is arguing is a difference of opinion where each person feels strongly about their position. It becomes abuse when the attacks, whether verbal or physical become personal and hurtful in nature. from the child's perspective, it would depend on whether or not they understand what abuse is.

Answer by  CarolynOsborne (2804)

Children have a hard time differentiating between arguing and abuse, so it is important to explain what is going on to them. Arguing involves differences of opinions. Abuse is when one person deliberately tries to hurt the other physically, psychologically, or in any other way.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

If your spouse is putting you or your children in physical danger, denying any of you necessities of life or is calling you derogatory names constantly and mentally badgering you or treating you bad, then this is probably abuse and not just fighting.

Answer by  spyman0071 (86)

Spousal arguing is verbal arguments that occur. While spousal arguing can be a abusive if one side always puts down the other one. Spousal abuse is physical hitting or touching.