Question by  akjoshi (15)

What do you do when your husband cheats on you?

I don't know what to do, I am devastated.


Answer by  dpauleyii (843)

If you can forgive him and he doesn't do it again stick it out. If he can not make that commitment then get out. No reason to keep hurting yorself.


Answer by  tbird (732)

Open and honest communication is your first step. There is a reason he did this, and you need to see if it is something you can forgive him for. You may need counseling, either by a professional or your minister, someone who can be neutral and offer unbiased help for both of you.


Answer by  chunli (117)

If you want to save the relationship consider marriage therapy. Explore the reasons why he cheated and your feelings about the situation. If you do not, ease out of the relationship with as little drama as possible. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy.


Answer by  Mallika (449)

I can't do anything other than quarrel with him, cry for sometime and later console myself thinking about my kids. The other ways are to watch and advice him.

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