I just found out that my husband cheated on me--what should I do now?

Answer by  Spazman667 (259)

Find out why he cheated and then see if him cheating has hurt him more than it has hurt you. If his cheating has no effect on him and he is not sorry sadly the signs are there that he doesn't love you. There is no need to stay with someone if they can't care for yo.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Its up to you. Do you forgive him? If you do try to go to Marraige counseling and work it out. If you don't forgive him then you need to make the choice to seperate or divorce him. If you truly love him then work it out but remember once you have cheated its easier to do it again.

Answer by  Sharyl (340)

Talk to him, find out why, if this has ever happen before. The most important thing is for you to relize it wasn't because of you it is something to do with him and if you can't forgive him there is no way you two can make it. You have to have trust in a relationship.

Answer by  Porteratthegate (11)

Go to the Lord in prayer to give you strength to forgive. Try your best to not let your marriage add to the growing number of divorces. If your husband repents and wants to save the marriage it can be strengthened after going through such a trial.