What should I do about finding out my husband cheated before we were married?

My husband has been faithful since we got married, but I found out through one of his friends that he cheated on me before. I don't know how to react. I have lost some trust, but maybe when got married he became more responsible.

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Answer by worshipr (163)

First of all, second hand information from friends is not the best way to find out information. Communication in marriage is vital to any marriage, and it is always best to confront your husband if you have questions. If problems still remain, it is always smart to go to a good marriage counselor or pastor for help solve your crisis.

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Answer by tamarawilhite (17883)

One question would be if he cheated on you before the engagement, in which he was not fully committed to you, or if he cheated after the engagement, which is more serious. Get marriage counseling to discuss trust issues.

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