My girlfriend cheated on me, what should I do?

Answer by  nicole17 (15)

You should break up with her. The relationship isn't working for her, otherwise she wouldn't have cheated on you. You both deserve to be with people that are trustworthy and caring. If you stay together, you'll never truly trust her again. She must want something other than what you can give her, so let her go.

Answer by  somerset (801)

There might be different reasons she cheated, but whatever her reason was, distance yourself. She is in the process of growing up. Do not complicate your life. Find somebody mature enough to be in a caring relationship.

Answer by  Sudar (134)

It is better to accept someone who loves rather than the one you love. So if you really feel that she is not worthy enough to be your girlfriend, just leave her. Forget her as a bad dream and make your life better. You will definitely get the best one.

Answer by  timerunning (805)

You need to figure out if you want to stay with her. If you do, you need to talk to her about how you are going to regain trusting her. If you do not want to stay with her, then break up with her and allow time to heal your pain.

Answer by  Jrm (34)

You should break up with her. Some time apart is a must for both of you to get perspective on the situation, and to see how it is to live apart from one another. After a couple months with NO CONTACT, if you're interested then talk to her.

Answer by  DouglasEarlClore (1236)

Take this as an opportunity to evaluate the relationship. How invested are you at this point, and how invested do you want to become? This may be an excellent time to walk away from future heartaches. The worst thing you can do is ignore it. If you have not also cheated, the imbalance in the relationship should be addressed.

Answer by  babydoll (31)

if she really loved you she wouldnt have done it. but everybody makes mistakes & deserves a second chance. if you love her.. talk about it. but personally i dont think i would get back with the person who is not loyal.

Answer by  Anonymous

Take responsibility for how you contributed, require her to take responsibility for how she contributed. Read "After the Affair. "