Question by  Two2 (1)

Am I destined to be alone forever?

I have never had a girlfriend, and I have never even had a girl say she liked me. I try to look my best and am trying to be as kind as I can. I just want someone to love. Are some just not the right material?


Answer by  Brett (7986)

You fulfill your own destiny, so don't believe that you are destined to be alone forever. If I were you, I wouldn't worry about it so much. Just be yourself, keep having fun and enjoy life. The right one will eventually come around.


Answer by  Anonymous

The answer is: maybe. There are no guarantees in life. Just risks. Be who you are, focus on being the best you you can be, and let go of outcome-based thinking. Enjoy the adventure.


Answer by  melgivs (17)

If falling in love is something you desire, keep holding out hope because it will happen. God doesn't place things on our hearts unless it's part of his plan. In time, he'll show you what he wants from your life and it will be worth waiting for.


Answer by  patti (29325)

You are not "destined to be alone forever. " You've just not met that special someone who is out there for you. In the meantime, focus on being the best you can be. Cultivate interests and hobbies that broaden your circle. Eventually someone will take notice. Remember: you can't hurry love.


Answer by  LearnedtheHardWay (24)

Its possible to want something too much. When you focus too strongly on the lack of a relationship its easy to come off as needy and needy men are a big caution flag for most women. Stop worrying so much and let things take their course.


Answer by  wallaby78 (2293)

Be patient, and try not to worry so much. Many people these days are delaying dating and marriage until later in life.

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