My friend says she loves me, but I'm not a lesbian. What should I do?

Answer by  mdjames26 (533)

The best thing you can do is be open and honest with her. Tell her right out that you are flattered but you are not interested in her like that.

Answer by  Brittney (1095)

You need to see if she meant that she loved you that way or just as a good friend. Tell her how you feel a true friend will understand.

Answer by  tamarawilhite (17883)

Tell her that you love her as a friend, but that you are heterosexual, and thus cannot ever return the romantic love that she feels.

Answer by  Anonymous

Let her know that you are really straight. Never ever lead her on.

Answer by  Turkwork (1150)

Be honest and tell her that you are straight and if she is a true friend she will respect you, if not she is not a true friend.

Answer by  dpauleyii (843)

Find out if it is a friendship love or more. If more then tell her that you do not prefer that life style. Honesty is always best.