Question by  Clang2X45 (11)

How do you heal damage done by lying in a relationship?

My husband lied to me, how do I deal with that.


Answer by  Chaneygirl (1755)

You will need to take it day by day as your husband rebuilds your trust. I would discuss why he lied with him and your now lake of trust. Depending on the severity, this can take a long time. Ask yourself if this is what you still really want.


Answer by  whobesidesme (406)

Marriage counseling. You won't just "get over it". Go talk to somebody professionally who will help you both through the emotions and problems it has caused.


Answer by  DogLover82 (412)

If this was a one time event, forgive him, and forget it if you want to maintain the marriage. If you dwell on it, you won't be able to move on. If this is a continuing pattern of behaviour, you should ask yourself why you are in this relationship.


Answer by  Rose (6804)

You will need time to heal the damage that has been done and time to regain his trust. There is no quick fix, try talking with him about what the lying did to you and how it effected your relationship.


Answer by  adfd (14)

Talk to him and tell him how it really hurt you. Tell him how it made you feel and ask him not to do it again.

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