How do I get over a cheating spouse?

Answer by  meridian (466)

The most important thing is to remember that the cheating was not your fault. People make their own good or bad decisions in life - nobody drives anyone to do it. It will be very difficult for a while, but try to stay occupied with things that make you feel good. Over time, the hurt will subside.

Answer by  markmand (87)

The best option is too seek the counseling of a family therapist if you are still married. If you have already divorced, I would suggest a personal counselor who may help you deal with any trust issues you may have. He or she can help you to move on.

Answer by  mhbat (217)

It's true that time heals. If they were cheating, then chances are that the relationship is beyond repair and you should seek counseling to move on.

Answer by  rys (286)

Whatever you do don't be unfaithful back. Decide if you can forgive, but whether you can or not, it will take time.