What should I do if I think my wife is a lesbian?

Answer by  emtrobstu (233)

Depends on your feelings towards this. I'd rather loose my wife to a woman then a man. If she's down for it ask to watch them. If not, then just move on if it bothers you and she doesn't want to continue the marriage.

Answer by  jh (138)

Open and honest communication is essential in any relationship. If you truly think your feelings are warranted, you must find a way to tactfully address the concern. I would start by addressing general marital issues, without questioning her sexual orientation. Once the dialog is started, answers should fall into place.

Answer by  Anonymous

She's your wife. Ask her. And be willing to listen to her perspective. Sounds like you're pretty fixed in yours.

Answer by  wallaby78 (2293)

Sit down and talk honestly with your wife. Good communication is the key to good marriages. Tell her about how you feel and why you feel that way, and listen to what she has to say.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

You don't want to offend her if she's not. If you have probable cause flat out ask her. I suggest you talk to her about the situation anyway because it's worse for both of you if she keeps that secret for eternity.

Answer by  kasey1720 (169)

The best thing that you can do is to talk to your wife about it. Only do this if you have legitimate reason to believe that she is a lesbian.