What do I do if I can not get him out of my mind?

Answer by  sherryk (621)

Go out of your way to occupy yourself with other people--join a new club or organization; go out in groups with friends, get fixed up; but don't become a stalker--it's easy to slip into that mode. Don't phone him either nor plan on "bumping into him." Take care of YOURSELF!

Answer by  flamiss22 (5081)

It all depends what his marital status is. Has he moved on? Is he married or involved in another relationship? If he is then perhaps you should keep quiet. If he had wanted to reconnect with you he would have done so without any prodding from you. If there is a chance then ask him out for coffee.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

The reality is harsh but it's real. He left you and probably doesn't want you anymore. Don't waste your time on someone who DOES NOT deserve you.