What can I tell my friend that had an affair with a married man?

Answer by  AKMGabriel (241)

Many many others have made this mistake. What you have to realize is it is a very heady, adrenaline pumping experience that can really6 cloud you assesment of the other person. YOu may think you are madly in love, or that it was worth it, but alot of that feeling is actually adrenaline, not lasting love.

Answer by  jen37 (1135)

Depends how you feel about it. What is your leaning, positive, negative or neutral? If you have nothing supportive to say, I would keep your sentiments to your self. Or say something like, I don't necessarily approve of it, but You know I'll support you no matter what. For the other attitudes, I would just support her, she needs it.

Answer by  annewright (318)

What you tell her should depend on what she needs to hear from you. If she is seeking advice, you could express concern that getting involved with a married man could be painful for her and that you want to be supportive if she needs your assistance.

Answer by  AnjoBanjo (271)

That she needs to end it immediately. She is only going to have a life of pain eventually. Even if he leaves his wife and ends up marrying her she too will eventually be the one being cheated on. He is not loyal to his wife and their vows, he will not be loyal to her.