What can I do or say if my husband has no idea I am a lesbian?

Answer by  beardednail (81)

Honesty is always the best policy. Pick a time with no distractions and simply tell him. In the long run it will be better than living a lifestyle that does not suit you.

Answer by  Kassidy (223)

Marriage is all about trust and honesty. If you are a lesbian then you have been lying to him. You should tell him this fact. Then you guys should probably file for a divorce. Whatever you do, do not continue keeping information from him, this violates the terms of marriage.

Answer by  Gulptub (39)

This is a very difficult question to answer. I would definitely enlist the help of a counselor to see how best to approach this subject with your husband.

Answer by  Marybeth (841)

If you are a lesbian, why are you married to a man, you must have bisexual tendencies. I would talk honestly to him about your feelings.