What can I do if my wife will not answer where our relationship stands?

Answer by  jmcew (139)

Perhaps you could write her a note. Tell her simply that you want to work through this with her, and are willing to go to counseling. Tell her you think it is best to exhaust all options before considering ending it. Give her space, but be open to talking.

Answer by  Brett (7986)

I would recommend counselling. If she won't talk with you, perhaps the help of a professional third party might entice her to open up and talk about her feelings. I can't think of anything else.

Answer by  Turkwork (1150)

You probably already have information that will help. You probably know what some of her issues with you are. I would start by showing her that you are serious about working things out by making changes in those areas.