I'm in love with someone, but I'm not allowed to see him. What should I do?

Answer by  Tib (73)

There is a reason that you are not allowed to see him. Examine whether it is the lure of not being able to see him that gives you that feeling or if you really love him and would still love him if you were allowed to see him.

Answer by  sgt111 (34)

This depends on who is preventing you from seeing him. If it is your family, then you must make a difficult decision: should you listen to your family or your heart? There are many discreet places that you can meet him, like a library or school.

Answer by  Jrm (34)

It depends on why you can't see him. If you can't see him because, for example, he's in jail you should forget him. Otherwise, you should wait.

Answer by  Anita27 (656)

Take a good long look at why you are not allowed to see the person you love, and then take steps to correct the problem. If his parents don't like you, do volunteer work and stay out of trouble to improve you reputation. If your parents don't like him, help them see the good things about him.