How should a pastor counsel on adultery?

Answer by  h (364)

I think that a pastor should focus on the concept of forgiveness and stress that a marriage is a sacred commitment between two people.

Answer by  tamarawilhite (17883)

Recognize that the adulterous spouse was selfish, that the partner who was faithful has every right to be angry and hurt, and that the partner who cheated needs to reform.

Answer by  maber (1427)

It really depends if the couple wants to work together or if they want to just throw in the towel and give up. If they need more help than you feel that you can offer, do not be afraid to reccomend that they seek professional help. After all, you should look out for their best interest.

Answer by  enexel21 (51)

In cases where a parishioner is already at the verge of it, he can explain the consequences of it spiritually. How it can affect his church and co-church goers.

Answer by  pastortbone (22)

Biblically, without judging. Tell what God expect and then do their church discipline.