How do you go about forgiving him when he cheats on you?

Answer by  str8upcutie83 (471)

If you are trying to forgive him you have to sit down and have a talk with him and let him know how you feel and what your thoughts are about the relationship, and get his side of what he expects from the relationship. Forgiving means that you can not continue to bring it up all the time.

Answer by  Latin4 (11170)

We all make mistakes. You can forgive him, but you will never forget how he hurt you. You will become suspicious.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

If this is not the first time I suggest you move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's not worth your heart and trust being broken over and over.

Answer by  Rose (6804)

Someone has to earn forgiveness you can not just give it to them, and this may be one of those things that are not worth forgiving. You should look into some forgiveness books and advice sites on dealing with men who cheat. If he cheated once, then twice chances are there will be a third time.

Answer by  John (9008)

First of all, if he has done it more than once, you need to face the fact that he will almost certainly do it again. However, if you choose to forgive him anyway, you need to express your hurt. Tell him what his actions have done to you; don't try to bottle it up.

Answer by  TwoToneDodge (2204)

it all depends on you. If this was not the first time you need to find someone who care more about you, plain and simple. There are so many lovely guys out there but it takes time to find the one.