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Question by  hucha1 (1)

How do I stop being obsessed with someone?

 
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Answer by  jen37 (1135)

Start thinking of yourself first. How much undeserved time has this obsession eaten up from your life? Pick back up where you left off, start your hobbies again, get involved with a local club, or anything that will keep your mind occupied. Check out other people online and do some chatting, you will realize that there are better fish-in-the-sea.

 
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Answer by  courtandty (6)

I think the first step to stop being obsessed is to tell the person that you just cant talk to them anymore and then just start to do things that focus on you and your friends and not the boy/girl !

Reply by scarlettmorgan (1):
Would if you tell that person that "you just can't talk to them anymore", and they do not leave you alone, which then adds to the trouble of getting over them?!?!  add a comment
 
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Answer by  Anonymous

first get closure from that person so you'll know they're not perfect and second occupy you're time by doing stuff that you like to do which would not remind you of the person but focus on yourself.

posted by Anonymous
I already know she's not perfect...but I'm still obsessed. o_____o
What else can I do? d:  add a comment
posted by Anonymous
I'm inlove with this girl. But ive been living a lie.. I constantly check who she talks too i hack her. its driving my crazy!!!!!!  add a comment
 
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Answer by  Anonymous

Dedicate to yourself. Love yourself first, get busy doing things that YOU ENJOY. Life is to short to waste it in someone that doesnt appreciate you.

 
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Answer by  kelsey805 (4)

just try taking a break from the comp, fb, and doing things that are better, healthier and more productive that will NOT remind you of this person, and maybe not think about them as much, realize there's more ppl and talk to them.

 
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Answer by  val (95)

Keeping your mind busy will help get over an obsession. Try getting immersed in a good book or video game.

posted by Anonymous
I can't focus on books unless a character reminds me of her. Video games somehow make me think of her too. xD But nice try.  add a comment
posted by Anonymous
Shes all i need on the computer. shes an online girlfriend but this is driving me crazy ffs!  add a comment
posted by Anonymous
I'm in the same position now!!!obessed with a guy i met a couple months and were not dating either.I only talked with him twice the last time i asked him to call me back to set up a date.Well guess what he never did the end!!!!!!!  add a comment
 
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