Am I being used?

Answer by  Kurt (4579)

The best way to determine whether he is using you is to look at the amount of time he spends with you for things other than his pleasure ( sex or making out ). If he is spending time with you doing things you both enjoy or doing things to please you, that is a good sign.

Answer by  jen37 (1135)

Chances are that if you need to question it, part of you knows the answer already. When a guy likes you, you know it.