What should I do if I've been married for 8 years, and I feel like we're roommates?

Answer by  Doris59 (1647)

By year eight things could become boring. Keep your marriage vibrant or you will end up as roommates. The key is to assess whether you would like to spice things up or to call it quits. You can go for marriage counseling to get ideas of how to make it more of a marriage or you can file for divorce.

Answer by  liztiara84 (16)

It is crucial to remember how you began. Recall what things drew you together 8 years ago, and commit to revisiting those places and events.

Answer by  324hjt (610)

Work on building romance back into your relationship. Set aside special times for "dates", make the effort to dress up occasionally, and plan new activities with each other.

Answer by  Rose (6804)

This is very common around the seven to eight year mark. If you can try to plan things for you and yoru spouse to do, romantic things, a trip somewhere something that will help the two of you reconnect and be able to step away from every day life and focus on what is important.