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Question by  izzabizzal (58)

What is the effect of children when they grow up without mothers?

Should this be allowed?

 
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Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Sometimes the situation cannot be avoided. The effect of children without mothers or a mother figure can be bad. They may not show a lot of love or affection. If the child is a female they feel like they are lost and they cannot relate to their father.

posted by Anonymous
I am 28 yo F raised without mom since age 2. The effects were devastating. Developed personality disorder and intense fear of being abandoned by people so I just choose to never get close to anyone. Also developed signif. drug habit but now clean 6 years.  add a comment
 
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Answer by  martine (860)

In my experience with children girls who are raised without mothers can have be provocative and not have a very stable sense of self. Boys who raised without a mother tend to have a hard time with relationships and knowing what type of person they match with.

 
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Answer by  Vani1902 (120)

A mother is an integral part of a human being's life. They nurture that child and teach them the ways of life. When a person has grown up without a mother, they a have not received the full attention and nurturing that a mother can give.

 
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Answer by  bubbyboy (9929)

Every child should have a female figure in their life from day one. Sometimes this is impossible. There are many people who turn out alright without a mother influence in their younger lives. Probably if the mother isn't around, a grandmother or aunt or stepmother will be there. Some kids grow up not knowing any better than a mother substitute.

 
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Answer by  Anonymous

My mom died suddenly when I was 9. My father did a great job with my sister and me, yet my romantic relationships have been a mess. I have no idea what a healthy relationship with a woman should be like. I am divorced, 45 and very lonely.

 
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Answer by  Anonymous

I was giving away by my bio mother to a woman married to a pedophile..she was cold unless she needed to look like a hero..I trust no one and the abandonment issues are profound.

 
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