What is guest etiquette for attending a bar mitzvah?

Answer by  sonyacarlson (695)

The etiquette is the same for any religious celebration. Be polite, arrive a little early, stay quiet during the ceremony and do what everyone else is doing. You are a guest and you should just smile and have a good time.

Answer by  zegars (61)

The Bar Mitzvah is very important to a Jewish boy; it's when he becomes a man. He reads from the Torah (the Jewish Bible) and leads the congregation in prayer. Remember to be respectful: men should cover their heads and all guests should sit silently and reverently during the service.

Answer by  Olive (1195)

RSVP to the invitation, bring a thoughtful gift-you can ask the parents.If offered, men should wear the kippah ( a small cap)

Answer by  tamkees (3203)

You should provide a gift at the reception that is religious in nature, such as a book about Judaism. The service itself will last anywhere from 90 minutes to 3 hours. You may be asked to wear a head covering in temple, which is usually provided for you.

Answer by  mtown934 (733)

There really is not too much that you'll need to worry about when attending a bar mitzvah. You're definitely going to want to bring a present or some money for the kid who's getting his bar mitzvah and you'll want to dress nice, but besides that just show up and have a good time!

Answer by  Aya (797)

In attending a bar mitzvah, you will want to dress nicely and show up with a gift for the boy, something a little grown up.

Answer by  Mollichella (445)

Guest etiquette would include things like brushing up on your knowledge of the celebration as well as putting the host first and minding your manners.

Answer by  tamkees (3203)

Plan on spending anywhere from 90 minutes to 3 hours at temple, depending on the branch of Judaism and the individual synagogue. Men and women usually wear a head covering, which is often provided by the temple. Bring a gift related to Judaism for the young man.