What do I need to know if I am married and think I am gay?

Answer by  and1lpfan (356)

That is a tough one, if you are unsure, perhaps the only way for you to know is to be with another man or woman. You should talk about your feelings with your significant other and come to a conclusion together, this affects both of you.

Answer by  amber33 (1941)

I would talk to your partner (husband/wife) about how you are feeling, so they know ahead that you might have these feelings. Maybe they will be understanding and try to help you figure out who you really are.

Answer by  wantnot (305)

You need to know that the world will not come to an end if you come out and admit to your spouse and friends that you are gay. Many gay people have been in heterosexual marriages before coming out, and lived to tell the tale.

Answer by  str8upcutie83 (471)

If you are sure what your sexual preference is do not get married, it will only cause heartache in the end for your partner.