What can I do for abandonment issues in children?

Answer by  monkeyz (3150)

It's important to try to building tolerance to distance gradually so that you can teach the child independence. Depending on age (or degree of reaction), you should go very slowly.

Answer by  technogeek (6640)

The child has to be made to feel like they are wanted and are important to other people. If they have been abandoned in the past, then the adult needs to minimize the ti,e that the child spends away from the adult. This way, the child will begin to feel comfortable with the adult.

Answer by  BlakeIsBlake (39)

You can have them put up for adoption. Even better, you could adopt them yourselves. What would be better than adoption a young child?

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Just love and support this child the best that you can. The most important thing is to be patient. Children who have abandonment issues often times don't respond well to love and support even though that is what they crave the most. It takes time for them to be normal again.

Answer by  tamarawilhite (17883)

Fear of abandonment is a common fear for young children. The first resolution is to come back when you say you will. This teaches them that you will come back. Secondly, do not leave them alone, and if you leave, make sure they are comfortable with the sitter.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Some parents get so consumed in their careers or their social activities that they tend to forget about spending time with their kids. Set a day that is just for your child. Do something that your child likes to do such as, playing outside, going to the toy store or drawing. They will feel special and loved.

Answer by  lillylove (13)

Most children respond in reassurance that you will be back. Practicing leaving and coming back for the child regularly and on time is key.