We've been dating for three years, and there's been no "I love you". Is this normal? Should we be dating at all?

Answer by  Rose (6804)

He may be affraid of commitment or could simply feel there is no need to express the way that he feels in words. If it is important to you then you should bring it up and have an open dialog concerning your needs and his needs. Try reading The five love languages. It may help you to understand.

Answer by  John (9008)

This is not normal. However, every relationship and every person is different. If you are concerned about whether your partner loves you, the best bet is to be open and honest about your concerns. Ask them what they think and feel; they might just be shy or uncomfortable saying the words.

Answer by  Mimi (59)

No 'I love you' in three years I don't think is normal. If someone hasn't said that once in three years it seems entirely possible that they don't love you but have settled into a comfort/friend relationship. However you have to consider why you haven't said it either.

Answer by  Brett (7986)

First off, what is "normal. " But I don't think it's common. You have to ask yourself, do you love the person? If not, then it's best you haven't said it, but perhaps no, you shouldn't be dating. If you do, you should say it, and if you don't, ask yourself why.