I'm in a sexless marriage, but I love my husband. What advice can you give me?

Answer by  worker8259 (68)

This situation is challenging because you are human and sexuality is an important component to a healthy marriage. Discussing the feelings you have about this issue with your spouse may create a different meaning for him about the lack of sex in the marriage. Communicating sex as something that makes you feel closer to him may be the answer.

Answer by  asad (116)

In my opinion marriage is a combination of good and bad times combination. Its not a sex sex thing but a contract to keep each other happy for life time. So step up and if your not bothered being sexless then do not destroy your marriage life. Cheers.

Answer by  srainne (2597)

I'm not sure if it is a medical reason or if there is just no drive there, but I would suggest you talk this out with your husband. Are there ways around his medical issue or his lack of drive? Maybe step things up a bit to add some fire in the relationship? Regardless, don't ever cheat.

Answer by  kipcat (1964)

Try talking to him about how you feel. Assure him that you love him and that you need to be close to him. If you are sure he is not cheating and that's not the reason for not having sex, then maybe there is something bothering him and he is embarrassed to talk about it.

Answer by  Anonymous

You must give him the benefit of the doubt and explore all the medical possibilities and try to interest him in talking more openly about his problem.Do not blame yourself if you are showing willing and being rejected. If all fails respect yourself and don't waste your whole life waiting!