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Question by  drA (22)

How do you get rid of an abusive boyfriend?

I think he'll come after me if I dump him.

 
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Answer by  Kurt (4579)

It depends on how abusive he is. If necessary, you may have to get a restraining order to keep him away from you. You may want to stay with either friends or family for a cooling off period for safety reasons.

 
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Answer by  butterflyblonde (250)

Get help! Contact your local women's shelter or even the police and let them know of your concern. A restraining order might be enough to scare him off, but if not you will want law enforcement aware of your concern.

 
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Answer by  alz (2329)

You should go to the authorities and have a restraining order put on him. They can offer you advice and protection because I am sure that he can be scary. However, do not continue to be with him because you are scared of him. It will keep escalating and get worse.

 
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Answer by  Zoe (2369)

Visit a site like Pandys (Pandora's Aquarium) for emotional support. Have friends stay with you and be with you when you dump him and file a stalking or restraining order.

 
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Answer by  barkabarkabark (15)

Find a safe place to stay, a friends house or your parents house, and contact the police. There are programs available that ensure your safety and protection.

 
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