How can you tell a friend she annoys you?

Answer by  drowningindebt (73)

Try to provide examples focusing on the annoying BEHAVIOR, not on her as a person, and own your role in the dynamics (e.g., "I feel annoyed when you do/say/act like...").

Answer by  Anonymous

You should write her a letter saying this so that she is very clear about it.

Answer by  John (9008)

If you simply tell her that she is annoying, it will almost certainly end your friendship. You need to look at what, in particular, she does that annoys you and very politely and delicately suggest that she change that specific behavior.