How can I get him to commit?

Answer by  lgk (2426)

Sometimes you just have to wait, and let him get to the point he feels ready. Trying to push the issue can make him feel trapped and want to leave. As aggravating as is it, you will have to decide, is it more important to go to the next level or to be with him?

Answer by  wallaby78 (2293)

You need to sit down with him and have an honest talk about your relationship. Share where your heart is in regards to your future together, and let him know why you feel that way. Listen to his response, and work through any issues stopping the two of you from moving forward.

Answer by  Dan3686 (969)

Getting him to commit is just as easy as posting this question. Ask him! If you are ready to commit to him then surely you should be able to have a sit down and discuss your future together. This in itself is a test of the strength of a relationship.

Answer by  jon6 (488)

If you put the thought in his head that he might lose you, he'll realize how valuable you are and commit. If he lets you go, he didn't love you.

Answer by  SMS4415 (343)

If it hasn't happened by now, it may never happen. Are you ok with that? If you are, then leave things alone. If you want a commitment, then tell him you want something- or you walk. If you walk, consider yourself better off.