What should I do if I feel like I have done everything to try to save my marriage?

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

If you have done everything that you can then maybe its just not going to work out after all. If you have done marraige counseling, talked it out or tried to fix what was wrong and its not working then its probably best to get divorced. You cannot force someting. You cannot make it work because you want it to.

Answer by  datingguy (44)

Well, unfortunately, it may be the case that you need to consider that your marriage cannot be saved. That said, be sure that you've tried seeing a counselor, as that may help tremendously. Also, you should consider asking good friends for advice on what to do.

Answer by  MrKhaan (90)

You should rationalize your feelings for the other. It should help you to take the right decision, as you will get, from emotions, to facts.

Answer by  Doomstoned (1454)

If you are certain you've reached this point, it is time to seriously consider filing for divorce or hang in there and pursue an extramarital affair in order to cope.