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                                                                                          sanityrose (2664)
                                                            
                          
                          
                                                          Issac, the bands main song writing contributer says the How to Save a Life, by Fray is about a friend who was lost and he helped him return. The friend was a teen crack user and Issac helped him get  off the drugs and start a new life. The song looks at his struggles and his relationship with his father.