he is probably not truly your soulmate if he dumped you. take some time to do things you like to do and spend time with your friends. figure out what you really want in a partner and dont settle for any less.
The best way to get over your soul mate is to give it time. It will not happen over night. Try to keep your distance from them for a month or so after the break up. Keeping distance and keeping busy will help you heal.