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Question by  mahavin (589)

What is the best way to deal with someone who is controlling?

I have a problem standing up for myself.

 
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Answer by  srinee (94)

When the person who controls you is in the higher post or elder than you, then you should appreciate them first and then need to slowly talk about your worry on the control. If this doesnt work and the person is still rude, you can oppose them gently. This will surely work

 
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Answer by  Jeanne72 (436)

The best way I usually deal with controlling people is to ignore them or take control of the situation. You do not want to have them control your life when their philosophy is wrong or unfair. If not, you can try writing a letter or prepare before a mirror.

 
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Answer by  Travis404607 (3916)

Just tell yourself that you shouldn't let anyone else try to control your life. Be confident, and other people will pick up on that confidence.

 
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Answer by  zarasluv (197)

You got to be strong and just look that person in the eye and say, Hey this has gone on log enough and I am not going to let you control me anymore you either meet me half way or do not meet me at all. this works and let them know you mean it stand your ground.

 
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Answer by  aofia (154)

The best way is to not deal with the at all. But if mandatory then take a class on self esteem.

 
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