The American way of life is more or less the same hopes that generations carry on such as owning your own home, having a good job, raising your kids with all they need, and the freedom to do it.
By being liberated and free of the things you want to do. When you reached the age of 16 and up you are free in the things you want to do but still asks permission from your parents but being liberated and free flowing can get you anywhere you want to be.