Should I spill the beans on a cheating spouse?

Answer by  pagan23 (1342)

Absolutely not. You want to stay as far away from this situation as possible. If they do break up or fight over you don't want them to blame you for anything. And, if it is a one time thing you don't want to ruin their marriage. You may have misunderstood what you saw too.

Answer by  jen37 (1135)

I was being cheated on. It didn't take long to figure it out, but I wish someone who knew would have told me. It is a rough decision, but maybe you could drop some hints, or let her know with out directly telling her.

Answer by  John (9008)

You should probably stay out of it. Cheaters always get caught, anyway, and it is not your business. It would also destroy your friendship. You may want to confront the cheating friend about her activities, however, and encourage her to stop.

Answer by  diva25 (4016)

No you should not do that. It would be better if you stay out of your friend's marriage. You did not make a vow to stay with them. If you know it is best that you never say anything about anyone cheating on anyone. If you cannot keep quiet you could be blamed for why they break up.