How do I re-establish a relationship with an adult daughter that hates me?

Answer by  ChrisH (53)

Try to understand why she hates you and gently and patiently show that it is no longer an issue (you are a different person, or the problem is resolved, etc.) Send casual cards and letters for contact, but don't push by calling or stating things like "oh I wish you'd just forgive me." It will take time and patience.

Answer by  Bill777 (65)

Slowly. Be polite. Be honest. Directly address whatever caused the split and do whatever you can on your end to convince her that you really want to bridge the gap.