How do I find somebody to love me?

Answer by  Patrick1127 (79)

If you're having a lot of trouble finding a boyfriend, I recommend online dating. In this day and age, many people find love using the magic of the internet. Set up a profile and do some man-hunting online. I have a friend in just your situation who did that and found a man in no time.

Answer by  Azoodica (286)

You have to first look at your life and try to go out and find new people to hang out and even though you're 30 you probably haven't found the right one as cliche as that sounds. Also if you are going out and meeting new people, you have to open up and allow someone to love you.

Answer by  Kurt (4579)

First you need to talk to men in a friendly way to let them know you are interested. It also helps if you are attractive and desireable to men. Flirt with men. Ask them to call you. Do fun things where men are ( like play golf )

Answer by  liilii (103)

You don't find love, love finds you. Be patient and you will get everything you want. Be more social and out there and will get what you deserve :)

Answer by  alz (2329)

The key is to go out a lot and make yourself emotionally available without appearing desperate. Desperation is a huge turn off for guys. They want to pursue you and not feel like you will be clingy. Let him chase you, but do not shut him out completely or he will think you aren't interested.

Answer by  jen37 (1135)

I'm 31, and I know it's hard to get yourself out there and find someone, but that's really what you need to do. Date as many people as you can.