How can I help someone realize that smoking pot is destroying him and our relationship?

Answer by  benstac (1928)

It may help the person realize that they are destroying a relationship with you if you can give them specific examples, like if they missed a prior commitment with you to get high. Let him know that using drugs is not something you want to be involved with.

Answer by  alz (2329)

This is really difficult to do because people ned to truly realize these things on their own before they decide they want to make a change. The best way to do it is let him/her know how you feel, maybe in the form of a letter so you make sure you have all the things you want to say.

Answer by  spyman0071 (86)

Tell them and show them how it is affecting your relationship. Show them how things would be different if they weren't smoking pot. The best way is just to blunt with them.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Overcoming an addiction is only something he can do. You can't make him stop. Just support him and be there for him, that's all you can do for now.

Answer by  Tabatha (440)

You will have to be as honest and as frank as possible. Clearly tell him how you truly feel and that you will not continue down this path with him.