How can I get over an emotional love affair that is over now?

Answer by  CarolynOsborne (2804)

Grief takes time and there are no shortcuts. During this time, develop some ways of spending your free time that add to who you are--volunteering, becoming more involved in your church, etc. These things can enrich your life and keep you from being too focused on the past.

Answer by  barkley (951)

You must focus on looking forward, now is the time to try new things, attend a class you are interested in, connect with new people and surroundings.

Answer by  BurnedHeart (13)

You can either concentrate on your work, or start another love affair to distract yourself for a while. Third option is to stay at home, drink, turn off your phone.