Question by  Mini (38)

What can you do about extreme jealousy?

My husband is crazy jealous. Something needs to change. I am not even doing anything wrong.


Answer by  itsmeagain (177)

I advise counseling. Find all of the books that you can read on controlling relationship partners. Extreme jealousy is not healthy. It can be the cornerstone of an abusive relationship.


Answer by  TheAnswerFairy (2345)

You have to remember that you are not the one with the problem. Go to couples counseling, even if he refuses to go with you. If he won't change, I predict your marriage will not last. Jealous and controlling behavior is the first step in an abusive relationship.


Answer by  weeonelb (358)

Jealousy is something that mostly only he can fix. However, you can help by easing his insecurities - which are the cause of jealousy. Make him feel special and know that he's the only one for you. Also just try talking with him and asking him why he is so jealous and ask if he trusts you.

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