I have lost feelings for my husband. What should I do?

Answer by  annie52foof (1459)

If you have lost your feelings for your husband you must first ask your self why. Maybe you are just going through a rough time, maybe it has become boring. I recommend you see a marriage counselor to see what the problem could be and what you can do to regain your feelings and make the marriage stronger if any.

Answer by  Rose (6804)

It is very common in marriage for your feelings to change for your husband. Take some time to yourself and try to go on dates with him to rekindle the relationship.

Answer by  bash (1026)

I am not aware how long you have been with your husband and what has lead you to arrive at a decision. Perhaps you may be thinking about a divorce and you are confused now. Discuss your problems openly with a good councellor, sit alone and rethink once again.

Answer by  tbird (732)

There were feelings there at one point, otherwise you wouldn't have married. What you need to do is self-analyzation and be honest with yourself. Why have you lost feelings? Are there financial issues? Have one or both of you grown distant? Are children getting in the way? Find the reason, and try to work through them one at a time.

Answer by  lonelywolf (2117)

This is often a normal part of marriage - many partners lose their feelings, but they can get them back if they really want to. I suggest marriage counseling.

Answer by  kipcat (1964)

If you don't love him any more, then it is time to move on. If you still love him, talk to him, let him know how you are feeling and maybe things can be worked out.

Answer by  mrsd (4)

my husband and i have been together since age 16 and i am now 27, i started having kids at 17 and now we have 5. i got married to him at 19.i love my husband but i've lost intimate feelings toward him.i want to sleep with other people.