Do you agree with the idea that we like someone for their qualities but we love them for their defects?

Answer by  doggyhouz (75)

I agree with this. I love the person that can challenge me and not only that teach me something. It may seem like a defect to me but I might actual be bad at what their able to do. And liking is to give yourself time to be around them until you see the defects.

Answer by  tamarawilhite (17883)

We are attracted to someone for their positive qualities. We do not love them for their defects, but for their willingness to share such defects with us. Getting to know their imperfections is a sign of intimacy and confidence, proof that we are close to them. And if we stay with them after knowing their flaws, it is love.