What should we do if my husband doesn't want kids but I do?

Answer by  Anonymous

Divorce. There's no compromise on this issue. No one should be wheedled, intimidated, tricked, or forced into having children they don't want. No one should be wheedled, intimidated, tricked, or forced into not having children they do want.

Answer by  GeorgesBataille (59)

If you are with someone that does not want children and you do, you must evaluate how much you are willing to compromise in order to stay in a relationship with that person. If having children is your greatest goal, move on.

Answer by  worker87 (15)

Ask your husband all the reasons on why he loves you, his mother, father, all the people that he adores the most. Now tell him what if they never existed because someone refused to have them. He might miss out on another love. Compramise must be made.

Answer by  Rose45 (17)

Which is more important to you. Keep the subject in discussion from time to time and he may change his mind. Pregnant without his consent, may lead to divorce. If you want children no matter what, and he does not, separate now and find someone who shares your values.

Answer by  diamond10 (160)

Honor his wishes while praying for him to change his mind as it would be far worse if he left you with children and no support because you decided to go against him.

Answer by  aearthdragon (471)

Should have talked to each other before getting married. If you don't want to break his trust you need to continue with birth control, and not force pregnancy it will only cause problems. You and your hubby need to start that conversation now.