What can I do about my husband who doesn't understand my bisexuality?

Answer by  aearthdragon (471)

To be blunt you should have been honest from the start, and explained it before things were serious. Best way to explain is this, "When you look a beautiful woman how do you feel?" "I feel that way too, but I also feel that way when look at you."

Answer by  technogeek (6640)

In all honesty, there is no way that he would if he didn't know about it before the two of you were married. If he did know, then he already understands, but he doesn't like the fact that you are having sex with someone else.

Answer by  CarolynOsborne (2804)

If you are committed to your marriage, then focusing on bisexuality is counterproductive to that because you end up fantasizing about situations that are impossible to live out without harming your marriage. He probably doesn't understand because he is concerned about what this means for your relationship with him.

Answer by  Sharyl (340)

Try talking to him with a third party involed, such as a close friend. pastor or family member. If that does not work you might think about a couselor. My question is does the bisexuality bother him or the fact you could be unfaithful. You did commit to him.

Answer by  Anonymous

You can only have one sexual partner. Are you saying you want to get divorced? Why would he be happy with that??? 'Bisexual' doesn't mean 'license to have two sex partners'.