No, it does not just happen. True love has to be built and worked at to achieve the real thing. You have to know the person and accept the way they are. Lust can just happen but if it is the real thing it has to be built.
Love can "just happen". It is better for love to "just happen" than the be forced. Love is a natural emotion and it should come naturally. It is not something that can be created but it can grow stronger over time.
Sometimes love just happens. But, you also have to work at love to make it healthy. All relationships need work and faithfulness and loyalty to be healthy and grow into real love.
